For twenty years I carried around a heavy weight of anger and resentment toward a person who had tried to bully me for refusing to serve on his board. He was in a position of power and verbally abusing people was his modus operandi.
Through an assessment at 210project.com. I discovered that this unreconciled relationship was one of two major roadblocks to increasing the energy level in my life.
I had never put two and two together in my head that these unreconciled relationships were zapping my energy. This showed up in my personal life and in my business. I knew I had to deal with them.
Unexpectedly, I ran into this man in the grocery store. My first instinct was to turn away. My festering anger and resentment nearly won the day. Reluctantly, I found the courage to come clean with him. I sought forgiveness.
In his position of authority, this person had abused so many people that he had no memory of our distasteful interaction. HE HAD NO CLUE THAT FOR TWENTY YEARS I HAD HARBORED MAJOR ANGER AND RESENTMENT FOR HIM.
The immediate release inside of me was unmistakable. Immediately, what had been a major liability in the balance sheet of my life was gone!
Fixing this unreconciled relationship released SO much energy in every aspect of my life. It also helped me realize the negative power of unreconciled relationships to zap energy from your life.
Since then, I realize that there are three major things that zap our energy. In the next few posts, I will be talking about each one.
Never remain “stuck!”
Harry T. Jones
P.S. You can get a head start on identifying the three common areas that zap our energy in my free download (CLICK HERE).
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